Weekly Group Classes
are an introductino to how to make money as an online and real time (in person) Domme.  I cover a variety of issues such as how to build your business, how to make and market videos and clips, how to get new clients, and how to make your time count! Sometimes classes go over technical skills & control. Ask me what is on the calendar for this week!

ONE on ONE Consult : 30 minutes

Ask me any questions you have, get custom tailored advice to your business. Maybe you've been doing real time for a long time but want to transition into more online clients. Maybe you're looking for website feedback or some shop talk with another professional.

Computer Lockdown Service is just for Dommes
who want to be able to control their slave's computer but maybe don't want to learn how to do full lockdown.  You need access to your slaves computer. You want to block or allow your slave to view or use specific websites. You want control over what programs your slave can use on his/her computer. You want to know EXACTLY what your slave types in his/her email, banking, social networks. You want ALL the passwords your slave uses for his/her personal online life. I can give it to you. 

I will lockdown your slave within the requirements you specify using . I will set up his/her system so that you can use and access it, but don't have to go through the trouble of installing software, setting up access, or figuring out problems with software interacation.

After I am finished locking down your slave's computer I will give you ALL of the passwords you need to access all the parental/ administrative controls, as well as set you up to be able to change/ alter settings in the future. One of my favorite things to do is blackmail slaves and force them to pay for privilages on thier own computers! 

I remain available to you for questions/ technical support. I will go back onto your slave's computer 1 more time FREE if you need me adjust settings for you/ walk you through some of the settings. 

What do I get?
Your SLAVE tributes for my time ($65). Once I'm in your slave's system I can take the tribute myself, or you can instruct your slave to tribute to me using the button on my page before I begin. The session is 100% free to the Domme, ONLY THE SLAVE pays for my time. When we are done I hand over all the slave's information to you to control, blackmail, or use as you and your submissive have negotiated.

  • Weekly Eventbrite Group Class           $50
  • Learn to be a Financial Dominatrix     $100
  • One on One Consult 30 min                   $50
  • Computer Lockdown Service                 $65
  • TECHDOMME TRAINING: level 1    $250
  • TECHDOMME TRAINING: level 2    $500
  • TECHDOMME TRAINING: level 3   $750
NOTE: You may NOT TRIBUTE for computer control sessions via Niteflirt. You may not contact me about these sessions via Niteflirt. They have a strict policy against computer control which is why I DO NOT advertise comuputer control on Niteflirt. If you contact me on Niteflirt about computer control I will block you! 
Want to collaborate? Team up? Need a slave locked down? Want to learn Teamviewer? Have a question? 

Email me directly: findomharley@gmail.com

I love networking with other Findoms to improve business process and make more money for us both! 



I know lots of Dommes want to learn how to use Teamviewer and other tech to take over, or destroy a slave's computer. I love teaching! But come on, I'm giving away my MONEY when I tell you how to control a slave. So let's compromise. Make sure you have at LEAST an hour for each training session. Technical difficulties with software installs can make these sessions run longer.

Techdomme Training Level 1: $250 
1 Session
Make a slave pay, or pay yourself. This course will give you an extensive teamviewer training course and practice session with my computer. I will teach you how to take over a PC and give you copies of the .exe control files I use when I take over a slave's PC. 
In this session I cover the following topics:
1. We will do an introduction to the teamviewer software itself so you understand all the functions, and specifically which ones you will want to capitalize on during your sessions.
2. I will do a "trial" session with you, where I show you how to lock down a computer. We will voice chat via the teamviewer software so we can discuss potential issues, and you can ask questions.
3. I will install some control software and show you how to use them, and provide copies of those files for your use. 
4. I will UNDO all the changes, so you know how to do that too (often slaves will want to purchase their way out of bondage, so you need to know how to do that too). 
5. We will discuss potential problems and issues with operating systems/ different computers/ and software compatibility.

Techdomme Training:
Level 2: $500 
2 Sessions
The first session of this course includes ALL LEVEL 1 TRAINING.
The second session takes place on MY computer where I train you on running a lockdown first hand.
In session 2 I cover the following topics:
1. I run you through a complete lockdown of my computer, showing you how to control and cripple the computer you are working on. You will get to run an actual lockdown on my machine and ask questions, discuss the process while we do it.
2. You will learn how to unlock my computer and revert all changes so that when your slaves buy out of lockdown you can restore their machines.
3. I will show you tips and tricks on how to snoop through someone's files & find their sensitive information.

Techdomme Training  Level 3: $750
3 Sessions
Includes ALL of Level 1 and Level 2 training.
In session 3 I cover the following topics:
1. How to build your business, grow your brand, and avoid legal issues.
2. A lockdown session on your slave's computer where we can run a lockdown together. This is good experience for double-domme sessions or just offer an opportunity to practice your lockdown skills with me as your lifeline and on point to answer any questions you might have.
3. You will have permission to use my trademark "Techdomme" by advertising yourself as "Techdomme Certified".
4. I will be your Mistress Tech Support by answering your emails with questions you have or advice in your ongoing growth in your business and your tech skills.

Techdomme (How to Financial Domination Guide for all Submissives and sissy boys who are paypigs Erotic Abuse): The FIRST, the ONLY TechDomme 


1. Read the FAQ BEFORE you contact me! I have already answered many of your questions.

2. Contact me directly to arrange a time for our session. I'm a rich bitch who doesn't work, so I'm usually available within an hour or so, but sometimes I'm out partying and will get to you the next day.  When you contact me for the session make sure you list your FETISHES, INTERESTS, AND LIMITS. Give me TWO options in PACIFIC STANDARD TIME that you are available for the session.

3. TRIBUTE the session fee appropriate for the session you desire. Use the PRICING AND OPTIONS section to figure out the expected tribute for the session.

4. Install a remote control desktop sharing software such as Teamviewer, Chrome Remote Desktop, TightVNC, Remote Desktop Connection, or any other remote control software you wish to use. If you are using software not listed here tell me before we begin.
5. Set your system language or profile to English. If you are unsure how to do this go to Google and type in "How to change [your operating system] to English" and follow instructions. 

6. RESTART YOUR COMPUTER at least 2 hours before the session begins. This is to make sure that all Windows updates are installed and your computer won't need to do any updates DURING our session (which is annoying)

7. I will be in touch with you shortly before we begin (usually 5-10 minutes). I will ask for the login information I need to access your computer and the session will begin. 


1. What is a Computer Control session?
A computer control session is where I use a remote control program such as Teamviewer, Chrome Remote Desktop, TightVNC, Remote Desktop Connection, or any other remote control program to take control of your computer. The degree of control I take over your computer, how deep I snoop into your files, or how many of your personal items I steal or delete will depend on our PRE-NEGOTIATION for the session and your specific desires and limits that we discuss. 

2. What is computer lockdown? 
Computer lockdown is where I take control of your computer. After you download the software you would like to use for our session, you give me the login information and I join you on your computer. Then I go about taking admin permissions and creating my own profile on your machine. I install all kinds of software on your machine including keyloggers, screenshot captures, and a variety of other spyware that will allow me to keep tabs on you and what you are doing at all times. For many slaves I set parental controls so they can not use certain applications or visit certain websites without my express personal permission. No more porn unless I say so, no more privacy, no more anything. If you are a sissy I may use my lockdown to force you to dress in girly clothing or suck cocks. If you love blackmail I may gather all your personal information and put it in a file. If you are into being exposed I will put you on cam and tell my followers on twitter to come watch me humiliate you. No matter what your fetish is I will have you at my mercy, with no choice but to obey my demands until I release your computer. 

**NOTE** I always respect pre-negotiated limits. It is 100% fine to tell me that you do not wish to involve blackmail, being on cam,bank account information, or any other aspect of play. I make a point of maintaining professionalism and not violating your boundaries or limits.  

3. What does the session entail? 
Before we begin we discuss your fetishes, interests, and limits. I will use this intial talk to tailor the session to of course entertain myself while I use your weaknesses to control you. You MUST let me know in advance what your limits are. 

When I take control your computer becomes mine. I can log into your accounts, collect personal information like photographs, logins, social media information, and any other information I may want to use for CONSENSUAL fantasy blackmail play.  I will lock down your computer and filter your websites so you can only access what I desire you to access. Each teamviewer session is a MINIMUM $65 tribute for my time and attention. After lockdown you may be extorted more and more for whatever permissions you may want including things like answering your emails, watching porn, or visiting your favorite social media sites. 

Sometimes sessions can include humiliation, degradation, chastity, consensual fantasy blackmail, cam-to-cam, ignore cam, or a variety of other arrangements depending on your deep dark fantasies. If you ask for LOCKDOWN you will get exactly what I describe above.  If you specifically want to include an aspect like humiliation, blackmail, DURING teamviewer sessions you need to communicate that to me when we  begin. 

4. How do you block my programs? 
I use standard parental control software, web-filtering software, built in software that is part of your OS (Micosoft, etc.). I reserve the right to NOT tell you all the of the tools I use so that you can't disobey me. 

5. Is this permanent and ongoing slavery? 
The point of lockdown is that you no longer have control over your machine. If you want a SINGLE session (where you are unlocked at the end of the session) of abuse that is fine, however I much prefer to drain slaves on an ongoing basis. I have had some computer control slaves enjoy my attention for over a year while I kept them in lockdown. 

6. How do I get unlocked? 
If you no longer want my ongoing attentions or you want me to remove you from lockdown entirely the buy-out is $200.00 payable via ANY session method on the PAY page HERE. This buy out is to secure your freedom as well as for me to remove any software I've installed and restore admin permissions. 

7. What if I decide not to pay you at all? 
Then your computer is most likely fucked. I've had slaves who did not obey tell me that it cost them anywhere from $100- $300 to get their computers unlocked by professionals, and even then there were things they couldn't access or use :) Additionally I will use whatever personal information I've gathered against you if you have engaged in consentual blackmail with me. 

8. Why won't you take your tribute from my computer? A real domme knows how to lock me down and MAKE me pay!
No matter how good I am I can't stop you from pushing the physical power button on your machine. Too many submissives request this and then disconnect the software or shut down their computer at the last minute, which is disrespectful, and a waste of my time. Additionally just because I have control of your computer doesn't mean that you HAVE ANY MONEY! You're probably broke and don't even have any cash for me to take. YOU PAY TO PLAY. No exceptions. Arguing is just a waste of my time. 

If you agree to consentual blackmail with me I may gather your banking or credit card information so that in FUTURE sessions I CAN take my own tributes if I so desire. However I MUCH PREFER you just send me my money. The Queen doesn't go visit every slave's hovel to collect what she is due. A good slave just obeys and sends the queen his tributes.

9. Do you accept Amazon Gift Cards for computer control sessions? How about Niteflirt or other tribute options?
You may NOT TRIBUTE for computer control sessions via Niteflirt. You may not contact me about these sessions via Niteflirt. They have a strict policy against computer control which is why I DO NOT advertise comuputer control on Niteflirt. If you contact me on Niteflirt about computer control I will block you! 
I don't usually accept giftcards because I already have a huge amazon giftcard balance that I can't spend down! If you can ONLY pay via Amazon you can ask me if I'm taking gift cards, sometimes I'll make you pay more for a gift card as a penalty for being a broke fuck who can't pay me with real money. 

10. How long does a computer control session last?
Usually between 30 minutes - 1 hour depending on your system, the type of session we are doing, and how fast your internet connection is. If I spend an hour just locking down your computer because it's slow as FUCK then that's your session. If lockdown takes 5 minutes then I'll stay and play a while. It all depends on what we are doing, your computer, and how well you obey and please me.
11. What happens if I freak out and turn my computer off/ end the session?
The session is OVER if you pull the plug at any point. I understand that occasionally the internet connection migh drop, but I do not tolerate "freaking out" and starting over.